Tomorrow is 1 year anniversary and my husband still?
tapes pictures,photos of his ex wife on my back,lower back and buttucks when we have sex, only doggy style or else I get nothing at all. The ex wife left my new husband with 2 kids and stole most of the family business money before she split. I was an employee at their home office and new the wife pretty well..She was a very nice woman and great looking..they made an odd couple..My husband worked his families business hard and long hours.I left before all this took place...so I feel very sad for my husband, he is half the man he was but I was always atracted to him since day one at the factory. I let him do this out of pitty ,hoping he will gain his spirits up, I know in my heart he still loves her, but I love him and want to please him and nurse him back to health. He cares for me I know, we never ever talk of his ex-but about 7 out of 10 times he takes the manila folder out ,places the photos on me and tapes them..then he starts having sex with me..Is this wrong or Helping? The reason I write is because tonight he started crying after he finished, he said i am ruined, i ruined you and then sobbed. I got scared So i might be hurting him when i thought i was helping. im so confused on what to do next. i never heard a man cry before like that it was nothing i've ever heard before. i love him so much and care for him,all i want is for him to be happy again. he is such a hard worker,honest,.. he is everything to me even though some say he;s average looking even below average. but right away i liked him.i would never interfere with their marriage when i worked there but she was pretty, and outgoing. i i really dont know what to do,if im wrong or right, more time he needs? he fell asleep. he tries, he applied for a new loan but rejected..he is trying to start small but cant get funded, but he lost the fight. i will get him back up and going, but how? i think he will get it out of his system, if economy wasnt bad then the banks wouldve given him the seed money to build again, he has the plans for factory,floors,machinery,he just needs the loan.so we hope econmoy picks up and then i pray he gets the loan, he is just a guy that would stop and say hi while busy,pick you up if stranded,help with any problem you had and still work without ever complainig, he was average guy and really nice smile, a great body(i think) and he is gentle but strong physically,used to be emotionally,no problem was too big for him to handle..he gave up in life and still there are glimpses ,a spark i see when he gets the blue prints and tries another bank, go to private investors, and he never finished high school.. you would all like him right away. i want him to get over what his wife did he doesnt care that she stole for many years, she never cheated on him and to be honest she was nice to me but really was beautifull..she liked me i want him back
Marriage & Divorce - 18 Answers
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I really, really, really hope this is a joke.
2 :
That is very wrong and very disrespectful to you... You need to make him stop doing that
3 :
(Kate--I wondered the same thing!) Shirleyy--If your question isn't a joke, it's wrong and it's not helping...him or you. I hope your self-esteem isn't that low. come on Shirelyy!!! I just looked up her profile...Shirleyy's username is SHIRLEY_YOU_JEST
4 :
This makes me sick...I hope this is just a terrible joke.... not funny
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your having a laugh... or trying too.
6 :
Personally this seems really degrading, but If you're comfortable with it then who am I to say. Of course, since you're posting this question, it obviously bothers you. Confront your husband, simply tell him no more sex till you're all he needs to arouse him and make him feel whole.
7 :
I too really hope this is just a joke.
8 :
This is not normal..I hope this is fake
9 :
im so wondering what made u love him that much?
10 :
Ok this is the joke of the night, not funny!
11 :
You have either way too much free time, or way too little self esteem.
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tapes pictures to you ...OMG don't let him do this to you!!!! This is Wrong!!! Very Wrong!!! There are places he can get help and its not by tapping pics of he's ex on you ! You can not help him, and doggy style has nothing to do with he's ex either PLEASE !!!
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This is the weardest sick joke i ever come across here.
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I'm not an relationship expert or anything but I wanted to answer. He's not over her yet. This will take some time, and he will get over her. I know this must be painful for you. Honestly I don't know how you can put up with, But this craziness will end, I wish I can say soon, but only time will heal this womb. You are going to have to up your sex game to help heal this womb. Speed up the process with some kinkiness of your own; after all this is your husband now. Let him do his thing, as disrespectful as that may sound, Because eventually he will get over her. But when he finishes his thing, you do your thing to him. Let him know "this isn't for you, this is for me" And you do some freaky stuff to him that turns you on. Masturbate in front of him perform oral on him. Please yourself, in front of him though. You need him to have images of you in his head doing these things. But now that he's your LIFE partner, which means until he cheats or beat you, you are there; You must learn to please yourself in front of him until he comes around. I believe if you do this, it will be sooner than later.
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If it is not a joke Then he is sick to do this to u and even u r sick to allow him doing so. Dont let him do so.
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You are some Woman! I will be blunt,It does sound very ill for your husband to tape photos on your back while he ismaking love to you. Does he stare at the photos or does he say I love you to YOU! Is this a ritual, or what and how did this start? He cares for you but is he in love with you. You might be mixing thing up whats healthy and what's not. Why not try a professional therapist to try and help him? I dont know any Woman that would do what you're doing but Why should I shame you. take him for help,talk it over..both of you.
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Wowza, Thats the most disrespectful thing I have ever heard and that is certainly saying something. This definetly is not true.
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3 months ago you were married for 14 months, now you're celebrating your 1 year anniversary. You need to check your calendar. You also need a life. I can't begin to think where's the fun in posting fake questions on YA. That's pretty lame. Can't believe some people actually believe this.
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Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
How come America did this to a Filipino couple
How come America did this to a Filipino couple...?
There was a married couple from Manila. She was a Major in the Army there and then a Doctor. He was a big shot executive with the Department of Agriculture or something like that. They took all their money and moved to America with three young kids and bought two houses. The U.S. told her she could not be a Doctor here so all she could do was be a nurse instead. The best job he could get was at a dog food company as a supervisor and he made less here than he did there. So why do Filipinos need to lay down here when professionals there are just as good as the ones here?
Philippines - 15 Answers
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Standards of education and requirements are very different in the U.S. Some people are disappointed to find that they must either get further education or find an alternate field of employment. There are many people who immigrate to this country and get the education needed to pursue their goals. There are all sorts of programs for legal immigrants, including free classes in English, grants, scholarships and low-cost loans, but it's up to the person to apply themselves. If your example is meant to imply a prejudice against Filipinos, sorry but you've got the wrong number. People from all over the world are a part of our system. Visit any emergency room and you'll find people from the Philippines, China, Japan, Jamaica, England, Africa, Eastern Europe, etc.
2 :
Well, foreign doctors NEED to be licensed by the Federal government for them to practice medicine in the US. That involves taking exams.
3 :
their jobs in america may not be glamorous but they are still making good money. it's their choice. it wasn't america that shortchanged them.
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there are different medical standards in america than in the Philippines. She would have to go to an american university or some other industrialized country with similar medical standards. plus she was not board certified here. board certification is necessary to become a doctor here.
5 :
lack of education requirements..you have to study there to get the job you want...
6 :
First of all, I am sure they told her she would have to go to American College to certify herself here in America to practice medicine and be Doctor here. I am certain that they didn't tell her she would never be a doctor here. She was licensed in another country - all we are doing is protecting ourselves and insuring that she knows the USA way of practicing medicine. It is not a slant against them for coming from Manila. Its a way of making sure that the Doctors here in America have all had to pass the same rigors across the board. As far as his job with a Dog Food Manufacturer, I have no explanation - you see we are in an Economic crunch here in the US, some would even say a recession - why would these people expect not to feel the impact like everyone else here does?
7 :
Being from the filipins there is no way a doctor made even 10% of what a doctor does in the states.... The reason I know this is because my sisterinlaw is from the filipins and if you go to a doctor there it is a tiny hut or small building a size of a exstream small house for it being a hospital, while my brother and his wife was back there vesiting her family he got sick and his Dr bill was only 7 dollars,most people are lucky to make 1 to 10 dollars a day much less getting any kind of large pay ck.....mail is ran by bike and cart and most homes dont have lighting or inside running water, sad but true...I also know that if a Dr came over here and was a true Doctor she would get a job and get full pay .....He was a department of Agriculture person with a degree also then he would also beabel to get a good job to, if they own two houses here in the US then they are not doing to bad, better then most of america who has a hard time buying one house.........you're story that you are asking about does not seam true at all.......
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The answer is simple... because moving to America is for the future good of their children.. If have a job like them in the philippines and single, I would not trade it for anything else, but because of my children I would rather risk it moving to america than staying in the philippines for there are a lot more opportunities here in the states. In the Philippines life is very difficult and competitive because of the struggling economy. We all know each person is different in its own way..so not all your children will be as lucky and smarter like the Father and the mother. I will definitely do the same thing and take my chances here in the states for i truly love my children and for the better good.
9 :
There are certain processes of certification in jobs like that in USA. Usually every state is different, unlike The Philippines. However, It is very true that Filipinos are push down a lot in America. I know a certain Filipina who is accounting graduate from a Philippines University, she speaks perfect English. But in America, where they advertise only for a GED credentials for a bookkeeper, she is declined time after time. Only job she can get is cashier. Americans are afraid and bitter towards outsiders who look better than they do and are smarter and harder working. There is an element of American society that feeds this attitude. I see it day in and day out. I am a patriotic American, retired US Marine, and registered voter but, I gotta tell you, my fellow Americans sometimes embarrass me. The world is changing.
10 :
Your question is vague. However, "America" did not pick on the couple, sir, which is what you're implying. In order to practice medicine in the US, , regardless of who you are, you have to take and pass a very difficult board examination and meet other requirements. I assume that she has not taken it yet or simply flunked it--and that's why she is not a practicing American doctor. It is also possible that even if she passed the test, she may simply not have met the other requirements specified. Also, doctors are not in very high demand in the US as nurses, so it's possible she simply thought it easier and more practical to earn nursing credentials. The average nurse in the US earns $70,000-120,000 a year. How many doctors in the Philippines do you know who can earn that salary without owning a massive practice? About the man. I'm not really that impressed with Executive types armed with MBAs, especially those who worked in the government (which may actually be a negative). MBAs are "a dime a dozen" in the US so those credentials earned in the Philippines are not going to open many doors in America, unless he has very specific skill sets that are in great demand but that's unlikely.
11 :
I agree with what everyone said but Dr. Pepper. I was reading what he was saying and was interested until it came to the part of going to the Philippines for medical and dental care because it was cheaper. He said he was a retired Marine then how much cheaper than free can you get. If he is retired U.S. Military he gets free medical and dental service.
12 :
I don't think most americans have realised how skilled some Filipino's are. The level of education they recieve is actually better in most cases as to what people in the US recieve. Just a shame that there is so much red tape these days that hold certain people back when they could really be helping out the country they are in.
13 :
You would think with that much education they would have the sense to make sure of these things before migrating. I know for a fact that a PI degree does not cover as much ground as an American degree. You can be a nurse in half the time. I worked with many Philippino Doctors in America and all did well. There must have been some lack in her education or an inability to qualify for the test. She may need some remedial training in some basics like math or english. Everyone seems to believe that just going to America will make them rich. There are many hungry people in America today. You have to fight and scratch there too.
14 :
By the number of similar responses you may have already read earlier, you must understand by now that the qualifications a foreigner may have to work for certain professions in the U.S. are not always accredited or recognized by many institutions. Many may tell you that the level of education is much lower in foreign countries compared to the curriculum and standards in the U.S. But what if they're wrong and that some foreigners truly are just as good as ones in the U.S as you've mentioned? Then you might consider those particular institutions in the U.S. operate with a preference in employing citizens in professional fields whom attended and paid the high cost of tuition by U.S standards. Although it may have been a loophole in the past whereby students in the U.S. could study in the Philippines thereby paying substantially less for tuition and returning to the U.S. to qualify and become a doctor. This may no longer be applicable as new restrictions may have been implemented to prevent such activity that negatively affected the profitability of educational institutions in the U.S. Hope this helps!
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because America wanted to.
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There was a married couple from Manila. She was a Major in the Army there and then a Doctor. He was a big shot executive with the Department of Agriculture or something like that. They took all their money and moved to America with three young kids and bought two houses. The U.S. told her she could not be a Doctor here so all she could do was be a nurse instead. The best job he could get was at a dog food company as a supervisor and he made less here than he did there. So why do Filipinos need to lay down here when professionals there are just as good as the ones here?
Philippines - 15 Answers
Random Answers, Critics, Comments, Opinions :
1 :
Standards of education and requirements are very different in the U.S. Some people are disappointed to find that they must either get further education or find an alternate field of employment. There are many people who immigrate to this country and get the education needed to pursue their goals. There are all sorts of programs for legal immigrants, including free classes in English, grants, scholarships and low-cost loans, but it's up to the person to apply themselves. If your example is meant to imply a prejudice against Filipinos, sorry but you've got the wrong number. People from all over the world are a part of our system. Visit any emergency room and you'll find people from the Philippines, China, Japan, Jamaica, England, Africa, Eastern Europe, etc.
2 :
Well, foreign doctors NEED to be licensed by the Federal government for them to practice medicine in the US. That involves taking exams.
3 :
their jobs in america may not be glamorous but they are still making good money. it's their choice. it wasn't america that shortchanged them.
4 :
there are different medical standards in america than in the Philippines. She would have to go to an american university or some other industrialized country with similar medical standards. plus she was not board certified here. board certification is necessary to become a doctor here.
5 :
lack of education requirements..you have to study there to get the job you want...
6 :
First of all, I am sure they told her she would have to go to American College to certify herself here in America to practice medicine and be Doctor here. I am certain that they didn't tell her she would never be a doctor here. She was licensed in another country - all we are doing is protecting ourselves and insuring that she knows the USA way of practicing medicine. It is not a slant against them for coming from Manila. Its a way of making sure that the Doctors here in America have all had to pass the same rigors across the board. As far as his job with a Dog Food Manufacturer, I have no explanation - you see we are in an Economic crunch here in the US, some would even say a recession - why would these people expect not to feel the impact like everyone else here does?
7 :
Being from the filipins there is no way a doctor made even 10% of what a doctor does in the states.... The reason I know this is because my sisterinlaw is from the filipins and if you go to a doctor there it is a tiny hut or small building a size of a exstream small house for it being a hospital, while my brother and his wife was back there vesiting her family he got sick and his Dr bill was only 7 dollars,most people are lucky to make 1 to 10 dollars a day much less getting any kind of large pay ck.....mail is ran by bike and cart and most homes dont have lighting or inside running water, sad but true...I also know that if a Dr came over here and was a true Doctor she would get a job and get full pay .....He was a department of Agriculture person with a degree also then he would also beabel to get a good job to, if they own two houses here in the US then they are not doing to bad, better then most of america who has a hard time buying one house.........you're story that you are asking about does not seam true at all.......
8 :
The answer is simple... because moving to America is for the future good of their children.. If have a job like them in the philippines and single, I would not trade it for anything else, but because of my children I would rather risk it moving to america than staying in the philippines for there are a lot more opportunities here in the states. In the Philippines life is very difficult and competitive because of the struggling economy. We all know each person is different in its own way..so not all your children will be as lucky and smarter like the Father and the mother. I will definitely do the same thing and take my chances here in the states for i truly love my children and for the better good.
9 :
There are certain processes of certification in jobs like that in USA. Usually every state is different, unlike The Philippines. However, It is very true that Filipinos are push down a lot in America. I know a certain Filipina who is accounting graduate from a Philippines University, she speaks perfect English. But in America, where they advertise only for a GED credentials for a bookkeeper, she is declined time after time. Only job she can get is cashier. Americans are afraid and bitter towards outsiders who look better than they do and are smarter and harder working. There is an element of American society that feeds this attitude. I see it day in and day out. I am a patriotic American, retired US Marine, and registered voter but, I gotta tell you, my fellow Americans sometimes embarrass me. The world is changing.
10 :
Your question is vague. However, "America" did not pick on the couple, sir, which is what you're implying. In order to practice medicine in the US, , regardless of who you are, you have to take and pass a very difficult board examination and meet other requirements. I assume that she has not taken it yet or simply flunked it--and that's why she is not a practicing American doctor. It is also possible that even if she passed the test, she may simply not have met the other requirements specified. Also, doctors are not in very high demand in the US as nurses, so it's possible she simply thought it easier and more practical to earn nursing credentials. The average nurse in the US earns $70,000-120,000 a year. How many doctors in the Philippines do you know who can earn that salary without owning a massive practice? About the man. I'm not really that impressed with Executive types armed with MBAs, especially those who worked in the government (which may actually be a negative). MBAs are "a dime a dozen" in the US so those credentials earned in the Philippines are not going to open many doors in America, unless he has very specific skill sets that are in great demand but that's unlikely.
11 :
I agree with what everyone said but Dr. Pepper. I was reading what he was saying and was interested until it came to the part of going to the Philippines for medical and dental care because it was cheaper. He said he was a retired Marine then how much cheaper than free can you get. If he is retired U.S. Military he gets free medical and dental service.
12 :
I don't think most americans have realised how skilled some Filipino's are. The level of education they recieve is actually better in most cases as to what people in the US recieve. Just a shame that there is so much red tape these days that hold certain people back when they could really be helping out the country they are in.
13 :
You would think with that much education they would have the sense to make sure of these things before migrating. I know for a fact that a PI degree does not cover as much ground as an American degree. You can be a nurse in half the time. I worked with many Philippino Doctors in America and all did well. There must have been some lack in her education or an inability to qualify for the test. She may need some remedial training in some basics like math or english. Everyone seems to believe that just going to America will make them rich. There are many hungry people in America today. You have to fight and scratch there too.
14 :
By the number of similar responses you may have already read earlier, you must understand by now that the qualifications a foreigner may have to work for certain professions in the U.S. are not always accredited or recognized by many institutions. Many may tell you that the level of education is much lower in foreign countries compared to the curriculum and standards in the U.S. But what if they're wrong and that some foreigners truly are just as good as ones in the U.S as you've mentioned? Then you might consider those particular institutions in the U.S. operate with a preference in employing citizens in professional fields whom attended and paid the high cost of tuition by U.S standards. Although it may have been a loophole in the past whereby students in the U.S. could study in the Philippines thereby paying substantially less for tuition and returning to the U.S. to qualify and become a doctor. This may no longer be applicable as new restrictions may have been implemented to prevent such activity that negatively affected the profitability of educational institutions in the U.S. Hope this helps!
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because America wanted to.
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Wednesday, November 7, 2012
How does a Filipino who worked in Israel for 7-years get a Police Certificate from Israel
How does a Filipino who worked in Israel for 7-years get a Police Certificate from Israel?
My fiance has been authorized by the U.S. Consulate to come to the U.S. However, there is one stipulation - she must obtain a Police Certificate from the Israeli Government. She is a nurse and worked in Israel for 7-years there. She contacted a former employer and even relatives in Israel and no one seems to want to get involved. She does have a close friend of hers who has a relative who is an attorney and is hoping that he might be able to go to the Israeli Consulate in Manila with her to help her on her behalf. If this doesn't work, I am at a loss. Any suggestions?
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Specific procedure for Israel Residents – apply to your local police authorities. Non-residents – apply to your nearest Israeli embassy or consulate. You should provide: 1.details of passport or Israeli Identity card 2.two recent passport photographs 3.address and periods of residence in Israel
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My fiance has been authorized by the U.S. Consulate to come to the U.S. However, there is one stipulation - she must obtain a Police Certificate from the Israeli Government. She is a nurse and worked in Israel for 7-years there. She contacted a former employer and even relatives in Israel and no one seems to want to get involved. She does have a close friend of hers who has a relative who is an attorney and is hoping that he might be able to go to the Israeli Consulate in Manila with her to help her on her behalf. If this doesn't work, I am at a loss. Any suggestions?
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Specific procedure for Israel Residents – apply to your local police authorities. Non-residents – apply to your nearest Israeli embassy or consulate. You should provide: 1.details of passport or Israeli Identity card 2.two recent passport photographs 3.address and periods of residence in Israel
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Thursday, November 1, 2012
Surviving Long Distance Relationship
Surviving Long Distance Relationship?
I was searching for the keyword “how to survive gay long distance relationship�. I was inspired to write you and tell my story. My name is Yujin and I am from Manila, Philippines. It is lucky that my parents had accepted my sexuality since I officially came out at the age of 19. I am 29 years old now. I had ended my 10 year relationship with another man last year. It should have ended on the 5th year but we tried to fix it. It survived another 5 years but those extra 5 years are becoming more and more difficult for both of us. and so, the relationship ended. After it ended, I had short term relationships.. This has been I guess my way to tell myself that I am “still� young and I will be just fine without him (the man I lived with for the last 10 years). But since these were all “rushed� It did not work as well. I will be honest that my sexual level was high and I had those new relationship to satisfy the need. Until one day October 19, 2009. I was seen by a guy whom I just added in one of those Social Network sites. He was just there in my profile page but we never get a chance to communicate. The next day, I received a letter from him saying “I saw you walking in front of Gateway Mall…just want to say hello�. I replied to him “You could have greeted me then please reach me at (my mobile number)�. And that afternoon, I received a text message from him. And so we met in my house. lets call him by the name “Merck�. Of course since this guy waited for 2 years just for me know that he exists, he was so exited about it (both emotionally and sexually). One the very first time we met, something happened. But according to him he did not do it for lust. He did it to let me know that his waiting has come to an end. He asked if I am still seeing another person and he will understand..he just wants honesty. I told him of course I am free. I do not know if destiny is really playful because when he visited my house for the first time, he received a call from the Employment Agency that his application to The Middle East is approved and he can now start working with his requirements. He is a Registered nurse. I told myself secretly “did he come just to say goodbye?�. I pretended happy but of course I was sad..I hate all forms of goodbyes. But I cannot hinder this person of his dream. We dated and courted each other for the next 2 weeks until we official on October 30, 2010. He revealed to me everything. From his childhood, his favorites, family. The challenge that I had with him was he gets jealous..not in an unhealthy way. Its because he does not want to lose me anymore. It was nice and I assured him that “he will be the one�. He knows that I am prone to temptation and since he is a Christian, he had asked me to throw all my porn related materials. According to him, if I believe and I truly love him, I will do it because this act is for me anyways. I did that. We enjoyed each other. He sees to it that we meet everyday, we go to church together, spend time quietly. We made plans and schemes and we do our best to survive. We were able to enjoy our “Monthsary�, Christmas and New Year. On January 1, 2010..He bought a pair of ring. Though we know that same sex marriage is not yet recognized in the Philippines, a simple moment of vows is good enough. I love this guy. So in love with him that I forgot that time flies. February 17, 2010, we talked and he said that he will leave for Middle East on March 1, 2010. I know that he will have to fly one of these days. I had accepted that situation. But I cant help but to cry and be sad. I have been reading books regarding LDR but how come I feel restless and fearful? He assured me that he will be on vacation every 6 months and he is going to do this for our dream. He even looks forward that he will find me a job there related to my work (I am working in a contact center). My mom is very supportive with me and him and encourages us. He even told my mom that “I am HIS forever�. Any advise on how I can survive this sadness?
Singles & Dating - 2 Answers
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ok yeah i think so
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I am currently in a LDR, I am from the middle east, he is from the UK .... we've been dating for 5 months now, and i tell you .... it is not easy, but it is doable if you are in love. God bless technology, you will be using a lot of it. Make sure u have an account on skype, and that u have a web cam ... u need to set certain dates and times that u will both commit to in order to talk to each other. I have found this site quite helpful ... don't forget to check the sub links in there too. http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Long-Distance-Relationship-Work Good luck!
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I was searching for the keyword “how to survive gay long distance relationship�. I was inspired to write you and tell my story. My name is Yujin and I am from Manila, Philippines. It is lucky that my parents had accepted my sexuality since I officially came out at the age of 19. I am 29 years old now. I had ended my 10 year relationship with another man last year. It should have ended on the 5th year but we tried to fix it. It survived another 5 years but those extra 5 years are becoming more and more difficult for both of us. and so, the relationship ended. After it ended, I had short term relationships.. This has been I guess my way to tell myself that I am “still� young and I will be just fine without him (the man I lived with for the last 10 years). But since these were all “rushed� It did not work as well. I will be honest that my sexual level was high and I had those new relationship to satisfy the need. Until one day October 19, 2009. I was seen by a guy whom I just added in one of those Social Network sites. He was just there in my profile page but we never get a chance to communicate. The next day, I received a letter from him saying “I saw you walking in front of Gateway Mall…just want to say hello�. I replied to him “You could have greeted me then please reach me at (my mobile number)�. And that afternoon, I received a text message from him. And so we met in my house. lets call him by the name “Merck�. Of course since this guy waited for 2 years just for me know that he exists, he was so exited about it (both emotionally and sexually). One the very first time we met, something happened. But according to him he did not do it for lust. He did it to let me know that his waiting has come to an end. He asked if I am still seeing another person and he will understand..he just wants honesty. I told him of course I am free. I do not know if destiny is really playful because when he visited my house for the first time, he received a call from the Employment Agency that his application to The Middle East is approved and he can now start working with his requirements. He is a Registered nurse. I told myself secretly “did he come just to say goodbye?�. I pretended happy but of course I was sad..I hate all forms of goodbyes. But I cannot hinder this person of his dream. We dated and courted each other for the next 2 weeks until we official on October 30, 2010. He revealed to me everything. From his childhood, his favorites, family. The challenge that I had with him was he gets jealous..not in an unhealthy way. Its because he does not want to lose me anymore. It was nice and I assured him that “he will be the one�. He knows that I am prone to temptation and since he is a Christian, he had asked me to throw all my porn related materials. According to him, if I believe and I truly love him, I will do it because this act is for me anyways. I did that. We enjoyed each other. He sees to it that we meet everyday, we go to church together, spend time quietly. We made plans and schemes and we do our best to survive. We were able to enjoy our “Monthsary�, Christmas and New Year. On January 1, 2010..He bought a pair of ring. Though we know that same sex marriage is not yet recognized in the Philippines, a simple moment of vows is good enough. I love this guy. So in love with him that I forgot that time flies. February 17, 2010, we talked and he said that he will leave for Middle East on March 1, 2010. I know that he will have to fly one of these days. I had accepted that situation. But I cant help but to cry and be sad. I have been reading books regarding LDR but how come I feel restless and fearful? He assured me that he will be on vacation every 6 months and he is going to do this for our dream. He even looks forward that he will find me a job there related to my work (I am working in a contact center). My mom is very supportive with me and him and encourages us. He even told my mom that “I am HIS forever�. Any advise on how I can survive this sadness?
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I am currently in a LDR, I am from the middle east, he is from the UK .... we've been dating for 5 months now, and i tell you .... it is not easy, but it is doable if you are in love. God bless technology, you will be using a lot of it. Make sure u have an account on skype, and that u have a web cam ... u need to set certain dates and times that u will both commit to in order to talk to each other. I have found this site quite helpful ... don't forget to check the sub links in there too. http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Long-Distance-Relationship-Work Good luck!
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